When in the getting to know you stage& your new other asks you how many children you have.. Don't wait 3 months later to tell them that you have F O U R (4). They may love children and may love your honesty even more. They may not even care.. But give them a chance!
I want to hit the next person who says “It’s whatever” in the midst’s of a life altering decision making moment. I want to spend the rest of my life with u does not equate to it’s whatever!@$!?@!!*
Sidetrack: I’m gonna miss having someone to take travel with. As a matter of fact I want to travel right now but I can’t go to where we went last year because. I was there with you. Incidentally, that trip was the beginning of the end. I wish we knew.
Men shouldn’t pressure women into 1) marriage 2) childbearing 3) co-habitating 4) opening joint anything!
Even if you are “ready” when you meet “the one” give her a second or two to catch up.
Always become “friends” before you become “lovers”
Honesty and communication are key.
Romance and anticipation are good.
Shake it up a bit.
Good surprises are good.
Spontaneity is good.
Sidetrack: Meeting the children should only be reserved for people who 1)know you have them 2) you want around them for the long run.
One’s Mother should never ask your girlfriend the first time she meets her if she’s pregnant. And then if she is not , your mother should not tell girlfriend with a laugh that she will be soon. That scares people away.
One should not use manipulation to keep a woman.
One should not use guilt trips to get ones way
One should not stay where one does not fit. For too long.
One should not incite jealousy in ones mate just to test their devotion & then get mad when they get jealous !
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