I know some of my questions have no answers

I know some of my questions have no real answers..

I know some of my questions have no real answers it just makes me feel like Carrie Bradshaw when I ask them and just that closer to being that freelance writer.. I have not worked hard enough to be… :P

Anyhoo.. so here is my actual question.

Is there is a specific time allotted in a relationship where you can begin thinking of things such as futures, matrimony, progeny, realizing you actually are your mother/father, graying old together, rocking chairs, and the like??

I mean is it ever too soon or too late? Is it ever too early to realize someone is THE “one”?
Whycome .. yes.. come to the south with me…. Why come.. in “those” stories about couples, the man is usually the one who realizes that he has found The “one”?

I’m just wondering. Not like I could compare myself to any time table. When I was like 8 a friend of my stepfathers told him that I was a late bloomer.. and he reminded me of it.. all of his life.. still does after.. im saying.. I do nothing normally.. I sometimes fall in love cautiously buy quickly.. but now.. I guard my heart and my mind cautiously. afraid to fall cuz falling usually results in scrapped knees and I’ve cleaned and healed enough broken hearted wounds.. like I said just wondering.. is there a time limit on things like this.. like some women won’t kiss on a first date, but some would allow you to taste their flower in a minute.. just to get the sexual tension out of the way.. you know.. we all have our rhythm.. so I guess I have answered my own question..

Not saying it’s not possible. But why come?

Why come I am completely fascinated by a friend of my older sisters who comes to the open mic. He’s an entrepreneur. Got himself a credit card and started his own Landscaping bidiness yet.. he is pursuing a singing career.. and he is Beautiful (sorry baby) he is.. beautiful person, beautiful spirit. someone you meet who you want to do well just because.. someone like them.. deserves to be happy.. and you can see them succeeding … that’s how I feel about it.. it’s so weird.. I don’t know what my place is when I meet people like this.. I know LOTS of people like this. I am sure it’s not just my duty just to know them. I am not sure what I’m supposed to do for them. But I did direct him to another friend of mine who never comes to the open mic, but was there tonight and he is the lead singer/vocalist/mc for a  hip hop/rock band.. that is on the verge of greatness.. b/c he (said landscaper/singer)  does rock/soul music.. perfect match to me.. so they hooked up after he sang.. but  really.. what is my duty here?

I mean I just don’t know people like jonbibbs or queen sheba or have friends who own labels and companies for nothing right? Ok… right..

Anyhoo.. i hope those you find yourselves reading this.. are taking care of you.. being good to you.. and find joy if only for a second in each day..

Life, laughter and love,
j