with time ....

sayings that you don't want to hear when you are in pain....

-time heals all wounds
-if you love them, let them go, and if they are for you they'll return to you
-you should be able to love someone enough to see them happy, even if it is with someone else..
-your man is a fool i can love you better..

tell me who comes up with this stuff???
Really!
1)time hurts
2)what is the waiting time btwn release and return?
3)i love you but not enough to see someone else all over the place i should be in
perhaps i don't love you enough
4)why do guys always think it's allright to insult the man you still care for to make themselves look better? that mess pisses me off.. and surprisingly enough i've heard that comment more times than i'd care to recount lately...

the good news.. i have gained clarity and distance.. so while my heart is not in pain... i realize some things about relationships.. and i am not yet ready to get my heartbroken again.. cuz i don't think it's time that heals all wounds.. but gaining a new perspective which takes time.. at least for me.. Miss Clingy...