ok for reeeaal. Taking step back and looking at my circle.. I hang out with a group of cool and down to earth people.
Everyone is mad peace, mad love, mad cool. and dawns on me that..
Opposites do not attract. Opposites repel. And WTF! was i doing with a wannabe?
Like it's okay to act as if until you get there.. but if all your doing is acting then that doesn't work.
IF all your doing is acting like your down to earth and cool like the rest of us down to earth people.. Uhh First of all
we can smell your fake ass coming..Second of all.. This is not something you have to front on.. IT just is..
being down to earth and cool is not something you cultivate.. Either you are or you aren't.. and the only reason i know i am in that crowd.. is because.. 1) it kept coming in conversation when people were talking to me. 2) like attracts like.. and as i looked around i noticed..that everyone in my crowd.. acted alike... they were cool and down to earth people.. thus... the summation.
But i digress.. ALOT... the fact is.. Everone cannot mesh.. some of us are opposites.. and what was seen in the beginning? .. Besides a love for potential?a need for attention ?. which many are good on fronting on..I always fall in love with people's potential.. And then get snagged in the end.. I'm gonna need for me to find some people who are not on the way.. but already there.. I have no problem being the supportive girl, friend, cool down to earth person with the warm personna.. but uhh.. if all i do is support your ego.. then that is not working for Miss J.
So all that to say. Opposites do not attract... Like attracts Like. And i was going to say the only opposites would be your out to my in..
But that is a compliment not an opposite.. The ying to my yang, the in to my out.. or the in to your out.. as the case may be...
I don't want to meet someone again who is lying to themselves.. about who they are and where they are going... I need for someone to be honest with themselves.. First and always.. B/C I am trying my best to be honest with myself.. constantly.
And the fact is..
I've met someone cool and down to earth.. who is DOING SOMETHING .. not just talking shit.. but walking that walk... has is own is doing his own.. and i think.. that is a better fit for me...
B/C opposites do not attract.. and us cool and down to earth people.. know a fraud when he first starts putting together the thought of approching us.. it doesn't work.. Take off your mask and be you.. Someone actually will like you... Hey.. it's worked for me..
Disclaimer: My feelings are liable to change on a whim.. and hey there is no hate here.. but understand.. i'm "working" through some thangs.. ;) thanks.. the management
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